Hoppy Easter Geeky Giggles!

I love Easter for a few reasons, but the hilarious images definitely take the cake - or better yet the whole Chocolate Bunny! Enjoy some EGG-celently geeky giggles that really get me laughing!

XOXO - Lani

Happy St Patty's Day & My 3 Yr Anniversary!

I Am LUCKY!

3 years ago on this day of GREEN, I went on a date with the man who is now my fiancé. (Luck of the Irish I guess!) I love you Sean Bassett, and look forward to spending many more geeky dates/events with you! 

Xoxo

Lani

Happy Geeky Valentine's Day

Spread the Geeky Love <3

Happy Valentine's Day Everyone!

Regardless of whether you're in a relationship or not, today is a day to celebrate LOVE! So don't forget to send a text, give a call, post a pic, shoot an email, embrace a hug, plant a kiss, or best of all share a smile with anyone & everyone around you! 

The simplest of gestures can mean the world to someone today, but gifts are always nice! ;D Here's a pic of the goodies my honey surprised me with at work today! 

My honey showed up with this fabulous growing plant (which I've wanted for my cubicle), some candy, AND the Monster High doll "Clawdeen" that I've been eyeballing at the store since FOREVER!

And for my love, I gave him The Walking Dead Compendium Volume 2. That officially completes his Walking Dead graphic novel collection. :)

The compendiums are HUGE

As much as I'd like to shower all of you with gifts, please enjoy some of the awesome V-day pics I've found around the interweb & SMILE! 

XOXOXOXO,

Lani

Oh Gollum!

For you fellow Whovians

Pew! Pew!

Geeky Gamer love <3 

Pokemon will always hold a place in my heart 

HELLO

Love this EPIC Kiss

LOL Star Wars

HAHAHAHAHA! Patrick Star, you're hilarious!

SMASHING

No...I DO!

LOL

Adorably cute/geeky

Mario <3 Princess Peach

...brainnnnssssss...

LOTR love

And this is what I gave/created to my honey via facebook :)

How this Geek Met the "Soon to Be" Family

And No, it was Nothing Like "Meet the Parents" 

* First off, my apologies for this very late blog post. Between the holidays, getting insanely sick, going back to work, conventions, & lil Sean's Bday this month has been CRAZY. I hope to get back on track with 2 posts per month. Besides this is the ONE YEAR mark till my wedding!*

Many of my coworkers giggled at my expense, when I shared with them that I'd be meeting my "soon to be" family over the holiday break. Some regaled me with tales/nightmares of their own meetings with their in-laws, while some offered up advice. Most of the advice & stories I had heard were about meeting a significant other's parents, but lucky for me Sean's Mom & I already have a great relationship! 

FACT: She began introducing me as her future daughter in-law when Sean & I LITERALLY 1st started dating - yeah my eyes popped outta my head & hit the floor when that 1st happened! LOL! 

This post is actually about me meeting Sean's extended family over the holiday season. :) Even with all of the support, advice, etc I was still nervous that I was going to get this wonderfully judging look from the family. 

After hyperventilating in a quiet corner somewhere in my mind, I came to my senses and told myself, "Hey! They are going to love you!" Fortunately the event of meeting the in-laws/extended family was nothing like the movie "Meet the Parents." (If you haven't seen this movie YOU MUST!)

Seriously, RENT THIS!

Instead it was all very exciting and positive! I got to meet a few of Sean's Aunts, Uncles, & Cousins over the Christmas holiday. I didn't get to spend a ton of time with all of them (as I had gotten pretty sick over the holidays), but I am happy to have met them all. 

Now, you may ask, how did you do it? How did you win them over & get over your fears?

I cooked. I laughed. I smiled.

Once I got over my ridiculous worries and fears, I settled back into reality and showed them who Lani is - in a nutshell. 

As my parents always taught me, "1st impressions MATTER!" So I made sure that every time I met the family, I put on the ultimate piece of makeup - A SMILE. 

FACT: Smiling helps to alleviate your stress and is contagious, making those around you smile too.

(I used to teach kids in Public Speaking this fact)

Once I did the initial meet & greet with everyone it was time to plan for the Xmas dinner day. I decided to do what I do best, I cooked some of my fav dishes - a roast chicken (which I flavored with a ton of spices, so no recipe to share, just know that it was YUMMY), salmon lasagne (Sean & I once again semi followed a recipe...but in the end we created our own dish that unfortuantely can't truly be replicated), and - my holiday staple - a double layer pumpkin cheesecake. 

Sean was very proud of the spread we were bringing to the family Xmas dinner (always a good sign when the future hubby is proud of food), but then I was reminded that I'd actually have to TALK! OH NO!

And once again...my silly fears and imaginiation had taken flight...for NO REASON.

I was asked about "what I did," my background, and other non terrifying questions to help them learn more about me - the future addition to their family. Instead of getting interrogated, I got CONVERSATION. Oh the insanity! 

Once the shock wore off that I was not going to be water boarded or hooked up to a lie detector (PLEASE watch "Meet the Parents") I dove right into the holiday festivities, I even got to play a round of UNO (which I won & after that the family members stopped playing...so...as far as I can tell I am "undefeated"... )! :D

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After this whole experience I came to an understanding. As much as we (significant others) are nervous about meeting the "soon to be" family, they too are a touch nervous. They only want their son, daughter, nephew, niece, grandson, granddaughter etc to be happy! And if you do just that, they are ecstatic!

It truly was wonderful to realize that my "soon to be" family would just be...my family. Or as "Lilo & Stitch" would say, Ohana. :)  

Thank you to all of my "soon to be" family members for being fun, hysterical, & welcoming. 

My advice on meeting the "soon to be" family: DO try to put your best foot forward, but DON'T hide who you are! Sometimes words aren't always enough, so let your "actions" share more about you - whether it's cooking, a geeky crafty gift, a sport, etc. Be immensely proud of yourself, so let that shine through your SMILE! Good luck! 

Love, 

Lani

Merry Xmas from this Geeky Family

Enjoy the holidays with those you love!

Xoxo - Lani

A geeky family surrounded by geekery! Nightmare Before Christmas characters I drew (WHEE), video games, LOTR movies (& other action geeky movies), board games, Skylanders, and of course SUPERHEROES! Awesome.

Infographic: A Brief History of Weddings

I Cost HOW MUCH?

Infographics are amazing, and this one certainly taught me a lot about "wedding history"!

What bit of information will shock you? :D

Here's the link to the infographic web page:  http://bit.ly/TPkoio

Thankful for All the Smiles

Giving Thanks to Family, Friends, and My Geeky Life

"I just have to share a 'Being Grateful' moment.

After looking through the pics of the Engagement Party, (which was EPIC) & glimpsing at other photo albums here on facebook, I can't help but to smile from ear to ear (& even well up a little). I am grateful for each and every person in my life and for the moments I've shared with each and every one of you!

My life is rich with SMILES and that to me makes me RICH IN LIFE. Money & things come and go - but the laughter, the memories, and the smiles...bring true happiness to me. I Love you all. Thank you for making 2012 an amazing year and for joining me on this adventure called life. XOXO"

This was last week's facebook post in honor of the thankful season. And after seeing so many "Grateful Day" posts and having some time to think about it I figured I'd blog and share what I'm most grateful about.

My Crazy A$$ Family

Family at my 26th Bday party - they had surprised me by driving up from  So Cal!

Valentina and I

I may not have an endless bank account, but I do have an endless amount of fantabulous memories. :) Some people only have "childhood" memories of their family, but my memories continue to grow with me. I <3 spending any amount of time with my parents, (who are some of the most amazing people - and which many of you can attest to), and when we do it is spent in continuous laughter and smiles!

Now throw in my spitfire little sister (who will always be my partner in crime) and you've got, the Wong Tribe of the West!

I will never be able to thank my family for all they've done and continue to do for me. Our love for one another knows no bounds. As nutso as my family has driven me (and will in the future) I know too many people who don't have relationships AT ALL with their family. I am blessed to come from such a loving family.

*If you ever want to hear tales of intrigue, adventure, evil bees, dangerous toboggan stunts, hilarious pranks & more just go ahead and ask me - I have TONS*
  

  

Just 1 of our many themed xmas/holiday cards

My Fab Friends

I've been lucky enough to meet some of the most incredible people from all around the world - and all just as crazy (or crazier) as I am!

Collage created via facebook app

I recognize that each person I have met and interacted with in my life has helped to shape and form me into the person I am today - a person I am proud to share with the rest of the world. So thank you to ALL of YOU for being a part of my life.


(Just to add I am also thankful for the people who weren't always the "nicest" to me, for those moments were some of the most important molding experiences to make me the beautiful person - I believe - I am)

Gungnam Style friends at our Engagement Party

*If you find these hilarious then we have a bond ;) *

So did you laugh? :D

A SUPER Wedding Party

Top to bottom/left to right/B for Bridal/G for Grooms: Rico/B, Kerilyn/B, Dustan/G, Matt/G, Valentina/B(Maid of Honor), Dave/G, Jay-J/G, Gordon/B, Melissa/G(Best Woman), Scott/B, Stephanie/B (Not shown: Christina/B, Ryan/G, DeMarco/G)   

Sean and I mulled over who we wanted to have join our Wedding League of America - do we need 2 heroes each? 3? 25? After perusing resumes via facebook profiles - JUST KIDDING - I believe our epic team of FOURTEEN will do our wedding justice!

I thank all of you for joining us in this insane adventure to defeat the all mighty Wedding Monster and all it's minions!

This is what I envision LOL

My Career/Job

A week before Thanksgiving my boss told me that the paper work to convert me from a temp position to a permanent position was being processed! WOO! 

I have had an interesting path when it comes to jobs/careers. Retail, children's theater instructor, children's public speaking instructor, curriculum developer, office manager, actress, theater marketing manager, Stanford public speaking instructor for engineers, and my current position as Social Media Marketing Specialist in the world of Semiconductor IP. 


I also have to pat myself on the back as I've stayed pretty close to my degrees! I graduated with a B.S. in Advertising and a Minor in Theater. :D

Never thought I'd end up in Social Media, but it totally makes sense now after the fact. I love all things COMMUNICATION, and social media marketing is about learning and adapting to new forms of communication. Super thankful that after a year as a full-time temp my boss saw something special about me. Very grateful to have such a great boss and team. 

My team at a convention called DAC 

My Future Husband/Geeky Other Half

I can't believe I'm getting married. Especially to a man who I not only love, but look up to and aspire to be more like at times. Sean has overcome so many things in his life that I find it hard to believe that he is still standing, let alone capable of loving me as much as he does. It is remarkable.

Putting aside all our geeky things in common and the fact that we're attracted to one another, Sean did something that not many people are willing to do - he fought for me.


After an insane "Sex and the City" type break up (no joke, Carrie Bradshaw had NOTHING on me) I joined TEAM SINGLE. My one catch was that no matter how amazing (or hot) a person seemed/was, they'd have to take the time to win me over. In other words, I was putting up a fight! 


And Sean (who was Amazing & Hot) went a whole 10 ROUNDS with me! Lol! Question is who knocked out who? Hm...

Riddick visited this Wondercon booth babe

From showing up to Wondercon dressed as Riddick, bragging about me to his friends, playing video games that I BEAT him at, accepting my "take it slow" attitude, and more, he proved that he was at least worth my efforts and time. ;)

But it wasn't all fun and games for I literally attempted to find reasons to stop dating poor Sean. And there he was just giving me more reasons to stay and fall head over heels for him.

Now with Sean's mini me (who was 2 yrs old at the time) entering the picture towards the beginning of our relationship I thought for sure I was going to split like a banana. Instead I put down my judgements and opened my heart and mind to a child who only wanted to be loved and deserved love.

A Geeky Family at the SJ Ren Faire

Even my family fell in love with Sean before I was ready to admit I was completely bonkers for him. My sister literally adopted him the second she met him! LOL

One thing that made me fall for Sean more than any box of chocolates can of pringles and flowers new video game could, was the day he saved THE mouse. 

Outside of Sean's old job I saw a little mouse lying out in the open breathing heavily. I was so worried for the mouse's well being that after I told Sean he just calmly went outside, scooped up the stunned mouse, gave it a once over for injuries, told it that it'd be OK, pet it's head, and placed the mouse back into a grassier area hidden from predators and shoes. 

My heart melted right then and there. He doesn't know this, but I nearly cried that day - well I guess he will now. :)

And the rest is history. We're happy, in love, and getting married in a flurry of colors and geekery!

I love you Sean Bassett. And I'm more than proud to have you, the one who fought for me, as my future husband. You are nothing short of amazing. XOXO

How it looks to all of you

How it feels to us

Stereotypical Holiday TIP:

Be thankful for what you do have & make sure to let those around you know you are thankful! Seriously! 

Thankfully,

Lani